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How to Introduce Sex Toys in the Bedroom

How to Introduce Sex Toys in the Bedroom

When you and your partner first get into your relationship, the sparks tend to fly high. With one glance, you two can easily stimulate one another and have mind-blowing sex. However, life happens. Whether it's stress on the job or a stressful season in your relationship, there are times when sex isn't the hottest idea on the list of things to do. This is when it's important to get creative in finding ways to bring the spark into your intimate moments as a couple. For many couples, sex toys can do wonders for bringing excitement back into physical intimacy. Keep in mind that you don't need to be in a dry spell to bring toys into the bedroom. A toy can work for couples no matter what their relationship looks like (good or bad). However, there are a few key tips you'll want to include when you're getting started in this explorative journey together.

1. Clear Communication
When it comes to men and women, the communication struggle is real. That's why books like Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus can become best-sellers. Each one is trying to figure out the other because communication is essential to any healthy relationship. In this case, it's really important for both parties to communicate about their fears, insecurities, and curiosities through this experience with any toy. If a man feels insecure about the idea because he feels like he's not pleasing his woman right, the toy introduction might not go well.

2. Respect
In any relationship, it's essential for men and women to be respectful of each other. If you want the romance to go down the drain, disrespectful tones and attitudes will do the trick. Determine certain acts that are completely off-limits and stick to those boundaries. If one party feels pushed to do something they don't want to do, this can lead to some serious resentment. Always be respectful of your partner's comfort zone.

3. Small Beginnings
Take it slow. Don't pull out the big and complex contraptions. They can prove to be pretty intimidating if you don't know what you're doing. Look at a few reviews on YouTube or other websites to learn more about how to use a new toy. Don't be discouraged if you two don't get it right the first time. Practice makes perfect.

4. Discretion
When you're ordering a toy, you don't want it to show up in an obvious box on your doorstep. This is why a subscription box is such a dynamic idea. A subscription box will provide all of the interesting sexual gadgets and products, and your neighbors won't be all up in your business! Plus, a little secrecy might make the romance feel forbidden and spicy.

Physical intimacy and togetherness need to become major priorities within relationships. There are different ways to come together and develop an increased sense of intimacy with one another. While challenges and struggles can make a couple stronger, physical intimacy and exploration make the journey hot and pleasurable. As life provides its fair share of twists and turns, don't lose sight of the finer things in life and relationships.

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